Saturday, June 26, 2021

HOW CHILDHOOD TRAUMA CAN NEGATIVELY AFFECT WHO YOU ARE - DR. NADINE BURKE HARRIS (GREAT TALK!)

 


THIS TEDtalk GOES TO THE HEART OF WHAT WE HAVE BEEN SAYING FOR A LONG TIME. Dr. NADINE BURKE HARRIS HAS PROBABLY DEALT WTH FOLKS WHO HAVE BEEN AT LAGUNA HONDA FOR A TIME. THIS TALK HAS COME AT A VERY POIGNANT TIME IN OUR OWN LHH LIFE AND ADDs MUCH TO OUR ARSENAL OF IMPORTANT TALKING POINTS TO SEE HOW IMPORTANT IT IS TO SEE OURSELVES IN A CLEAR LIGHT. TRULY, I WOULD LIKE TO MEET DR. HARRIS SOMETIME.



ENHANCES MUCH THE SAME POINTS IN ITS' OWN WAY. IN A BARE-BONES WAY...I'M SURE WILL HIT A NERVE and ADD CLARITY TO EVERYTHING.



CLICK THOUGHTOON!

FROM MY OWN DEALING WITH FIGHT or FLIGHT. I'VE SEEN HOW CONNECTED THE FIGHT RESPONSE and HOW IT CAN BE THE SAME AS STANDING UP AND FACING THE TIGER (WHO HAPPENS TO BE YOURSELF.) FACING OURSELVES SEEMS TO BE THE CULPRIT IN ALL OF THIS. I ALSO AM AWARE THAT THERE IS A LEARNING CURVE TO DO THIS AFFECTIVELY.

FACING YOURSELVES/OURSELVES and BEING ABLE TO STAND YOUR GROUND and BE WHO YOU ARE DESPITE WHAT YOU HEAR...CAN STOP YOU FROM FLIGHT INTO SOMETHING THAT ONLY DISTRACTS YOU FROM FACING YOURSELF and TO BECOME ADDICTED TO WHATEVER IT MAY BE THAT BRINGS A SHORT-TERM RELIEF, AT BEST. THAT IN REALITY JUST ASSISTS YOU IN AVOIDING WHO YOU REALLY ARE.

REMEMBER: THAT IT IS ALL WITHIN. FIND THE MOVIE ''THE END'' ON THIS BLOG. IT SHOULD BE CLEAR IN THE FIRST 3 MINUTES AND 40 SECONDS OF THE MOVIE. IT IS ABOUT FINDING OURSELVES!







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