HATEFUL PEOPLE or HATEFUL BEHAVIOR?

 HATEFUL PEOPLE or HATEFUL BEHAVIOR?

---When we meet someone we don’t like at ALL I wonder if it is the person or the behavior that we don’t like? If he/she is someone that is not our cup-of-tea at all, are we reacting to the person or the way that he is acting?

---Put this way, what if the person that you just don’t like spent the time with you telling you that he has seen you before and was always taken by how wonderfully that he thinks you treat other people. That puts a different chink in the armor. He also said he ordered a pizza and he was wondering if you want to have some. Pizza just happens to be your favorite food. Suddenly we have someone you weren’t attracted to that is appealing in some way. 

---Now, we can turn this around. A person can act anyway that he wants. He can act in ways that we enjoy OR don’t like at all. He could easily be the same person in each case AND your like and dislike is based upon the behavior and/or attitude that is used.

---Have you ever met someone that you liked, but met him/her years later...and found you dislike him/her very much? Or, maybe it is vice versa?

I have found that people are generally the behavior or attitude that they present. As they grow you find yourself liking or disliking the behaviors and attitude that they use. As you grow, you find your likes and dislikes change, also. They seem to mature.

---We can see that people are changeable and it usually depends on the behavior and/or attitude that is used? And, some people are much, more predictable than others. When we find ourselves going back to the ‘’Golden Buddha’’ within us all, we find that the part that chips away is the very attitude and behavior that we are wearing and identifying with. The freer we are of that reveals the ‘’Golden Buddha,’’ within!

---If you want to find out more of the ‘’Golden Buddha’’ see the YouTube film FINDING JOE. (BELOW!)