Laguna Honda Resident Rights Town Hall

LAGUNA HONDA RESIDENT RIGHTS TOWN HALL

TO THE NURSES of LAGUNA HONDA HOSPITAL...

 

---I would like to dedicate this song by the Beatles to ALL the nurses at Laguna Honda. I know that this song was written by John Lennon about a relationship to a girl he may or may not have been involved with. He may have found it applicable to that situation. But, I think it applies very strongly to myself and many others at any hospital or nursing home, also.

---I was very self-reliant most of my life and was very able to fend for myself. The bad times were the bad times, but I seemed to survive them alright. The stroke hit me in 2002...and I had NO idea what to do. I was immediately plugged into the system and ended up at living in a hospital..

---People have been very good to me here. I love them ALL and I really think I mean that. They have helped me...so many times in so many ways. The song fits in, in so many ways, also. I didn't think too much about what people did who couldn't do the fundamental things that I used to take for granted. Well, I learned, in spades. They get - HELP!
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---The version of the song has expired. I, finally, added a different version in its place.  It is NOT the BEATLES, but i  HOPE that it serves the purpose.

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TEDtalk - FRED LEE - ''Patient Satisfaction or Patient Experience''

FRED LEE

''Patient Satisfaction or Patient Experience''

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VERY POIGNANT -

AS I SEE IT!

 

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THIS IS WHAT THE STATE SURVEYORS DON'T SEEM TO KNOW - LONG-TERM PATIENT FOCUS GROUP

The FOCUS GROUP – FEB. 27, 2018.

REPUBLISHED

---Today we had a focus group for the long-term residents. I am glad that we had an opportunity to speak our minds. I would like to see us have more groups like this. I don’t think we even scratched the surface as to what we could have said. In my own case…I would have done better if I had more time.

WHAT I MEANT TO CONVEY:

---A woman mentioned that she enjoyed the groups that she goes to. I followed her statement with the fact that we should actually have more groups to learn different things. My answer was NOT to the point.

---I meant to say that we should have many more groups that convey SELF- KNOWLEDGE and SELF-WORTH. We should have more groups concerned with REAL REHABILITATION as I see it. We should be concerned with teaching the resident/patient how to know him/her-self. Since we are concerned with sending people into the society/community, it behooves us to equip those individuals with REASONs TO SAY NO. We do NOT WANT folks to fall into the same addictive patterns…so he becomes re-addicted. We need to teach those who are on this track to learn GREATER SELF-WORTH so they are able to say NO to things that re-addict them and cause them to re-enter the addiction system ...and mean it. If we get to the root cause before this happens, we may nip in the bud and keep the RESIDENT/PATIENT from having to deal with another malady stemming from the same root cause that was responsible for his/her entering the system this time. The root cause is usually much the same in each case.

Promotes Independence

---Or, it may be very worthwhile to help the patient discover what it is that really  gives him/her fulfillment. Then we could help him/her to actually learn to implement meeting those needs he has discovered. We would be doing a great service NOT only to the patient who learns this skill, but to the people who are his victim, so to speak. If he doesn't find something productive, he'll wander from pillar to post trying to find something to fill all the extra time that he seems to have, all the while, looking for these VERY ANSWERS and cause some kind of ruckus. In the long run, we could teach the Resident/Patient how to get his/her needs met...and NOT rely on the system or others to do things that he is able to do for himself. If we are able to teach folks to be self-reliant, in this way we promote independence. And...to boot, he will be much happier!

 -– With love and understanding and some SELF-KNOWLEDGE, we hope to teach the Resident/Patient how to make better and more LIFE AFFIRMING DECISIONS. MORE LATER…

---This Is What I CONVEYED To The People From The State In April 2021.  I Am NOT Sure What They Took Away. A REPRINT!

CHARTER FOR COMPASSION

The CHARTER FOR COMPASSION

FROM A FEW YEARs AGO

THE KEY TO DOING WELL IN THE SYSTEM!

THE KEY TO DOING WELL IN THE SYSTEM

---The KEY to doing well in the system comes down to knowing this basic fact. Folks who know what their needs are and how to get them met do better than those who are NOT quite aware of their needs and really have no idea as to what to do to get them met.

CLICK THOUGHTOON!

---They may be aware that there is something missing in their life, but they really have no idea what causes this dissatisfaction, but, maybe, sometimes they think they do. They usually find themselves addicted to something that gives a false, pseudo-impression that the feel good solution they are cozying up to is a or the solution...and it is not.

---This KEY is usually provided unknowingly from elsewhere and brings some relief from the feeling of dissatisfaction in the short run, but tends to lose its appeal as time goes on. By this time, we usually find ourselves addicted to this item that provides comfort and find we are as dissatisfied as ever. This KEY resembles the one you are looking for, but leads down a destructive path that many have already taught you is NOT the one. If it doesn't help you to get to know yourself better, you can be sure it won't last. It is just another distraction that you will become addicted to that eventually will ''destroy'' you in the end.

--The KEY, as I see it, comes in this way. Instead of being a pronouncement that TRICKLES TO the resident/patient from some authority figure who sits on high, it TRULY TRICKLES FROM the resident/patient himself when he finally is able to express things that he needs. The resident/patient expresses things inside of himself that reflect things that he needs to lead a fulfilling life of some sort. If you can help identify these things that he expresses AND then help provide some of the things that are needed, we'll see happiness show itself. Realize that they may not yet be on the tip of his tongue.

---This is a very crucial point and place to be and the crossroad that many find themselves. Learning what to do at this point can make or break the resident/patient. This crossroad is where the resident/patient should learn about trial and error to help him to decide what kind of things are of interest and floats his boat. The objective is to Be Happy and Contented and to be sure ALL others are doing well, also. Be Well!