THE KEY TO DOING WELL IN THE SYSTEM!

THE KEY TO DOING WELL IN THE SYSTEM

---The KEY to doing well in the system comes down to knowing this basic fact. Folks who know what their needs are and how to get them met do better than those who are NOT quite aware of their needs and really have no idea as to what to do to get them met.

CLICK THOUGHTOON!

---They may be aware that there is something missing in their life, but they really have no idea what causes this dissatisfaction, but, maybe, sometimes they think they do. They usually find themselves addicted to something that gives a false, pseudo-impression that the feel good solution they are cozying up to is a or the solution...and it is not.

---This KEY is usually provided unknowingly from elsewhere and brings some relief from the feeling of dissatisfaction in the short run, but tends to lose its appeal as time goes on. By this time, we usually find ourselves addicted to this item that provides comfort and find we are as dissatisfied as ever. This KEY resembles the one you are looking for, but leads down a destructive path that many have already taught you is NOT the one. If it doesn't help you to get to know yourself better, you can be sure it won't last. It is just another distraction that you will become addicted to that eventually will ''destroy'' you in the end.

--The KEY, as I see it, comes in this way. Instead of being a pronouncement that TRICKLES TO the resident/patient from some authority figure who sits on high, it TRULY TRICKLES FROM the resident/patient himself when he finally is able to express things that he needs. The resident/patient expresses things inside of himself that reflect things that he needs to lead a fulfilling life of some sort. If you can help identify these things that he expresses AND then help provide some of the things that are needed, we'll see happiness show itself. Realize that they may not yet be on the tip of his tongue.

---This is a very crucial point and place to be and the crossroad that many find themselves. Learning what to do at this point can make or break the resident/patient. This crossroad is where the resident/patient should learn about trial and error to help him to decide what kind of things are of interest and floats his boat. The objective is to Be Happy and Contented and to be sure ALL others are doing well, also. Be Well!