Monday, September 13, 2021

You Can't Simply Take Trauma Away | Dr. Nadine Burke Harris | Google Zei...


I, PERSONALLY, THINK THAT WHAT DR. HARRIS IS PROMOTING IS VERY IMPORTANT. I MYSELF CAME UPON THE ACES RECENTLY and FOUND IT TO BE A  MISSING PUZZLE PIECE IN MY OWN RESEARCH.

I FOUND THAT MY OWN RESPONSE TO LIFE, THAT IS SHARED BY OTHERS, IS TO AVOID FACING THINGS ABOUT YOURSELF THAT ARE TOO UNCOMFORTABLE. IT WAS EASIER TO INVOLVE MYSELF IN SOMETHING ELSE. I WAS BORN WITH ONE HAND MISSING FINGERS ON MY LEFT-HAND, BUT TRIED TO PUT IT IN THE OUT OF SIGHT, OUT OF MIND CATEGORY. BUT, UNTIL I FACED THE REALITY OF THE SITUATION, THAT'S WHEN THINGS STARTED HAPPENING.

WE HAVE SPOKEN OF HOW OUR GREATNESS RESIDES WITHIN, THE GOLDEN BUDDHA, REAL SELF, ETC., WE BLOCK THESE THINGS FROM COMING OUT. MANY TIMES PEOPLE ARE EMBARRASSED TO BE VULNERABLE. WE SHOULD BEGIN BY BEING KIND TO EACH OTHER AND NOT LAUGH AT ONE ANOTHER, TO ALLOW THE GREATNESS WITHIN (THAT MAY BE A LITTLE VULNERABLE AT FIRST) TO FEEL WELCOME AS IT APPEARS. POSING THAT YOU'RE STRONG MAY WORK IN THE SHORTRUN, BUT DOESN'T LAST. BEING REAL and AUTHENTIC IS A MUCH, MORE LASTING QUALITY.

BEING YOURSELF, SO-CALLED FAULTS AND ALL, WILL REAP BENEFITS BEYOND YOUR WILDEST DREAMS. TO INCREASE YOUR TOUGHNESS, LEARN TO FACE THOSE THINGS THAT EMBARRASS YOU. MAKING MISTAKES IS HOW WE LEARN. 

LEARN TO ACCEPT ONE ANOTHER and JUST DON'T TOLERATE EACH OTHER. MOST PEOPLE NEED YOUR KINDNESS and NOT YOUR ABILITY TO LAUGH AT THEM. THERE IS NOTHING GREATER THAN TO HAVE SOMEONE BE SUBSTANTIALLY BETTER-OFF, BECAUSE OF SOMETHING YOU'VE DONE.

SHARE HONESTLY WITH ONE ANOTHER!

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